Exploring the Life Domains

Respite

Short Breaks for Caregivers:
Being a caregiver can be one of the most rewarding and most challenging times we face. In order to continue to care for family members who require additional support, we must remember to care for ourselves as well. 

Why is Respite Important?

Caring for a loved one can be very rewarding, but can also be stressful, and even overwhelming at times, due to a lack of balance. Everyone needs time to do the things they need to do, like go grocery shopping or to an appointment. However, it is also important to make time to do the things you want to do and that is meaningful to you and your family, such as hobbies or activities with friends.

The topics covered on this page help you to explore and plan for taking small breaks (or respite) from your role as a caregiver or carer. Research shows that respite which is personalized and purposely planned benefits not only caregivers but all family members, including siblings or a spouse or partner.

This Guide and accompanying tools were developed in partnership with the ARCH National Respite Network and Resource Center Guide and funded by the Administration for Community Living.

ARCH National Respite Network and Resource Center

Benefits of Taking Short Breaks

Family Unit

  • More time spent together
  • Improved relationship quality with other children, spouse or partner
  • Improved relationship with, and better able to relate to, the care recipient
  • Ability to live ‘a more ordinary life’

Caregiver

  • Have time for everyday activities, like sleeping or running errands, and for taking care of own health
  • More time to spend with other family members, such as a spouse or partner or children
  • Freedom to do something for themselves, like visit friends or read a book
  • Better overall physical and emotional health
  • Reduced stress, exhaustion, and anxiety
  • Feeling a ‘sense of renewal’ or relief

Care Recipient

  • Meaningful, and potentially new, experiences
  • Greater independence by spending time away from the caregiver
  • Socialization and keeping active (depending on activities during respite time)
  • Improved interactions with caregiver (because caregiver is less stressed)
  • Increased happiness and self-esteem
  • Improved physical and mental health

Webinars

Charting the LifeCourse for Respite During COVID-19

Webinar presented by Jane St. John in Collaboration with ARCH National Respite Network

This webinar explored how to use the LifeCourse Tools for Respite during the coronavirus pandemic to help providers offer respite safely, and to guide family caregivers in using respite safely. We also demonstrated how to use the tools to help develop strategies for family caregivers and care recipients to cope with the pandemic. Examples were presented on how the tools can be used to help family caregivers find balance as a caregiver, and help both caregivers and care receivers find alternative respite options and ways to socially distance and still live the good life!

Download the Presentation Slides

Charting the LifeCourse Respite Tools

This webinar will provide an introduction to the LifeCourse Respite tools for new users and also serve as a refresher for those who are familiar with them. An overview of the LifeCourse Tools, including the LifeCourse Respite Guide, the Respite Portfolio, and the Integrated Supports Schedule, with guidance on how to use the tools most effectively to help you assist the families you work with to get a well-deserved break, was provided.

Getting Started

It is important for caregivers and their families to make a plan to incorporate respite into their lives long before exhaustion, isolation and feelings of being overwhelmed have set in. Advanced planning also allows for respite to be customized to meet the unique needs of the family members and provide enjoyable and meaningful experiences for everyone.

Trajectory for Respite

Good respite planning starts with a clear vision for a good life and for a good respite experience. Having a vision of what good respite looks like for you and your loved one, and keeping that vision in mind, can help guide you as you make decisions about whether choices or experiences draw you closer to that vision or further away.

Integrated Supports Star for Respite

Completing the star will help you think about your own life and the supports and resources you have available in each of the star categories that could help make respite possible or a better experience for you and your loved one.

Integrated Supports Schedule for Respite

You and your loved one have worked hard to make plans for successful respite and identify resources that can help you reach your vision of good respite. The schedule can help you see the need to take a break as well as find time to incorporate respite into your life.

Respite Guide

The Respite Guide and accompanying toolkit are intended for anyone in a family or relationship that is providing the majority of care or support to a person who needs additional support, and are also referred to as “caregivers” or “carers” throughout this guide. It is focused on the topic of respite, or short breaks for caregivers.

Charting the LifeCourse Respite Portfolio

The Charting the LifeCoure Portfolio is designed as a booklet printed on 11×17 paper. It includes the CtLC Trajectory tool on the inside and the Integrated Supports Star on the back. It provides a cover sheet with information about the person.

For more information about One Page Profiles click here

How To Use These Tools

Having a clear picture of your current situation can help you know where you are starting, how using respite could improve your life, think about what you would do with a short break, and identify what needs to change.

Life Trajectory: Respite

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The Trajectory is the path in life that will either lead you toward your good life or push you toward what you don’t want. Life experiences and events affect the trajectory. Some experiences help move the trajectory toward the desired good life outcomes. Others might move the trajectory toward unwanted results. It’s important to reflect on past life experiences, both positive and negative, to know what to continue or build upon, and what to avoid or stop doing. With every choice, decision, experience, or interaction with others, consider which direction it nudges the trajectory. 

Integrated Supports Schedule: Respite

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The schedule can help you see the need to take a break as well as find time to incorporate respite into your life. Fill out your own schedule as it is now so you have a good visual of when you are providing care and when you are meeting other life obligations. The schedule can also help you see how and when your loved one is supported by yourself and others, and find windows of time when it might make sense for you to create respite opportunities.

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